So yesterday, after having our dinner, we decided to go out for a drive around 9:30-10ish . We were on the highway when we saw this man on a bike. The man had a balloon twisted animal hung at his back. And that balloon animal was the only colourful thing there was in the dark of night, above the brown jacket, and black bike of that man.
Well, obviously he was on a bike so he rode very fast and soon he was nowhere to be seen, but he did leave something behind for me – a memory of the balloon animal.
I asked my mom later, why would such a grown up man , late at night be driving with a balloon animal on his back. And because of her longer years of experience of life than me she answered smiling “ He must have been a thoughtful father, because even though he is so late to reach home but he still thought of his child and brought something for him.”
At that moment I started imagining the happiness the child would experience when his father comes home and gives him that gift . But thinking about that I realised that there were many instances when my father gave me something but I hastily threw it away because I did not like it.
But after seeing that man , I noticed that there were too many sentiments attached to even the smallest of actions which mostly go unnoticed or unappreciated.
Think about the food we eat………….takes hours to prepare and mere minutes to finish off and then point out the imperfection of the taste.
We end our day with a full stomach though. Would you sneak up at night to eat something else?You and I won’t even be awake to do that.
Let us together think about what everyone , you and me here will finish up in a matter of days.
But which took a lot of crushing to prepare.
How about the books? Some bring too much comfort and feelings. And we drowse off with our last thought or a tear or a giggle. Some do not happen to be as expected.
There can be thousands of arguments why they just weren’t good for us. They were maybe too rich in vocabulary, too mature, too historical but…
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But they still make us drowse in an eventual sleep. At night.
In fact, if anything before us would have been rather too incomplete or just half of what it was fully possible of achieving will our day ever end? A good ‘THE END’?
We would squirm and squish, twist and turn. Be it an empty stomach or our own undone checklist.
So whatever makes you sleep makes you dream, and wake up with a yawn… We must appreciate it a little bit. Criticism is important, but it is not a liability anywhere and everywhere.
I am not saying go start in a pleasing round of flattery when that is apparently not the case.
You may right now find a thousand reasons to contradict this post.
But if you do this once, what would the end outcome be? Too bad? Or worse still, just better than our previous version. Right?
Maybe there just won’t be an argument with someone over how bad or little we spoke. My mother won’t get frustrated if I appreciate her as well as change the way of pointing out where she went wrong.
There might be a mutual understanding.
Isn’t that we all want? understanding? but fail by creating a misunderstanding?
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Written By Khushi. M
Edited by YouKnowWho.( anyways it is Kunjal)
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P.S this post is scheduled. We will both be at school then for exams. Anyone having future deciding things as well?
And Question of the day:
How would you want someone to be grateful to you?
Thoughtful post 👏👏.
Gratitude is attitude, how true it is!?
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Thank you OFFshorewriter Glad you liked it😄 btw just to conform your name is preeths right? heard people call you😃
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Oh yes, that’s my name dear. ❣️❣️❣️ Your name please?
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We are Khushi and Kunjal😃You can check more about us in the about section!😃
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Oh…. Sisters?
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almost! we are best friends!
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I will sure check.
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Great post! We do take so much for granted. It would be amazing to just go through a day.. recognizing what we have!
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Hey Naomi ( wait you can comment😂 hope u get ur new screen soon!!)
thanks for your opinion!
have a nice and grateful dayyyy!!!!😁
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Hey! (Yeah I can comment! WordPress is sometimes a bit stubborn and won’t let me, but I can comment today!) Of course! Thank you!
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Insightful post.👌🏻 Being grateful can really make a difference. Truly enjoyed reading this!!
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Thanks Jan! Your comments are really nice😃.
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showing little bit gratefullness is neccesary everywhere. Otherwise there are more argumennts!
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So true! You are most welcome!!😊
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What you wrote is so true❣
🤷♀️and i guess that today’s lifestyle is: hurry towards the next thing.. always impatient to finish work n get it over with😬
Hardly anyone stops for a minute to be grateful🥺 *i definitely do not stop*💔
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yeah!!! thanks for opining!😀
also if you don’t mind this one
how will you want someone to appreciate you?
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I guess if they notice the different shifts in my mood and treat me accordingly.. I would feel safe and appreciated!
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oh yes you nailed a right point!
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what about u?
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same goes here. it feels special when people act as we want them to. when some understand our mood. when they understand our impulses😃
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Ikr!! its the best moment when some1 understands your mood!!🤩🤩
I know no one should ask this but how’s study going?😂 When is the last paper?🧐
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glad someone asked😂😂
tomorrow is our sst paper.
last paper is english!
studies going on great!!!
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🤢sst.. all the luck in the world to you👍👍😂
Who gets better marks between the two of you?😝
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We both love sst😂
.. riya be like
“what?
i hate itt
what>
shit.”
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Okay.. uhhuh..uhhuh.. even I like *reading* sst .. but tests and exam and ratta everything!!! ugh that’s just shit😂😂
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oh not neccesarry to ratta😂but dates just chop off the brain into well two!
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😂😂😂brains are already in two parts!
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Oh god really?
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Yeah..left and right but they do have a small connection in between 😅
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you literally roasted using science.😂
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😂guess i didn’t mean to🤓🤣
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This was really thought provoking. We take a lot of things for granted, that is so true. We’re living such a fast paced lifestyle that we tend to forget to appreciate the little things the people around us offer to us. If only for a day, we could be grateful for everything we have. A wonderful post, loved reading it ❤
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Thanks Bhaiya!! appreciate that you liked it!!! We indeed feel dissatisfaction in everything when there is so much comfort in our lives brought out by people!!
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So true.. ❤
Oh, so no exam today? 😆
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Ah! No … we have our preparatory leave today . But we do have our exam tomorrow 🥴
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Oh, good!
My best wishes to both of you 👍
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this is very insightful!
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hey akshita thanks!
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Honestly, There’s a lot to be grateful for… We just have to get past our ego and see the efforts people make for you. Loved the post!❤
Have a great day!
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oh may thank you so much!
You made our day!
so definately gonna have one great day😃😄
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